My friend
Sherrie has been doing this challenge (of the heart) and I have been busy
reading along.......I thought this post was just an amazing breakdown of the relationship between man and woman....Why not brush up on the love and thoughtfulness in February, the *LOVE* month!
When you first fell in love, being thoughtful came quite naturally. You spend hours dreaming of what your loved one looked like, wondering what he or she was doing, rehearsing impressive things to say, then enjoying sweet memories of the time you spent together. You honestly confessed, "I can't stop thinking about you!"
But, for most couples, things begin to change after marriage. The wife finally has her man; the husband has his trophy. The hunt is over and the pursuing done. Sparks of romance slowly burn into grey embers, and the motivation for thoughtfulness cools. You drift into focusing on your job, your friends, your problems, your personal desires, yourself. After a while, you unintentionally begin to ignore the needs of your mate.
If you don't learn to be thoughtful, you end up regretting missed opportunities to demonstrate love. Thoughtlessness is a silent enemy to a loving relationship.Let's be honest. Men struggle with thoughtfulness more than women.
A man can focus like a laser on one thing and forget the rest of the world. Whereas this can benefit him in that one arena, it can make him overlook other things that need his attention. A woman, on the other hand, is more multi-conscious, able to maintain an amazing awareness of many factors at once. She can talk on the phone, cook, know where the kids are in the house, and wonder why her husband isn't helping.. all simultaneously.
Adding to this, a woman also thinks relationally. When she works on something, she is cognizant of all the people who are somehow connected to it.A woman deeply longs for her husband to be thoughtful. It is a key to helping her feel loved.
When she speaks, a wise man will listen like a detective to discover the unspoken needs and desires her words imply. If, however, she always has to put the pieces together for him, it steals the opportunity for him to demonstrate that he loves her.This also explains why women will get upset with their husbands without telling them why. In her mind she's thinking, "I shouldn't have to spell it out for him. he should be able to look at the situation and see what's going on here." At the same time, he's grieved because he can't read her mind and wonders why he's being punished for a crime he didn't know he committed.
Love requires thoughtfulness--on both sides--the kind that builds bridges through the constructive combination of
patience, kindness, and selflessness. Love teaches you how to meet in the middle, to respect and appreciate how your spouse uniquely thinks.
Have you seen these yummy flowers by Prima?
My sisters girlies and my little princess! Hope you had a weekend full of love and hugs and kisses!! 
More pictures tomorrow.......bed time!
And Winter 2007/2008 Doodlebug products.....LOVE them!!
Have a great start to your February! <3